subject: How To Tell If Your Partner Is Lying [print this page] You could have the suspicion that the other person is not telling the truth. Sometimes we feel the suspicion because they are naturally suspicious and find it hard to trust anyone. But sometimes they are being suspected because we feel that something is wrong, and that the other person is lying.
How can we know when someone is lying about this issue? Usually, when we try to ask questions of a person who has decided to lie to us, they continue to adhere on it.
Make the "fact" that makes it sound like a plausible story. That means that it sounds more like and it could really have happened but did not. See how the other person reacts. If the person was actually there, and he told: "No, it was an accident" and you pretty quiet on the matter. She or he is definitely lying.
However, if they were not really there, they can become dazed and confused, because I do not know what to say next. You could say something like "Oh, well, well, it was undoubtedly a major accident." If your partner seems to hesitate and act with too much confidence, this will confirm that they were not really there, because they are trying to reach another made up story.
I'm not a big fan of this technique because I do not think that trying to catch a liar by becoming a liar, but sometimes we are desperate to know if someone is lying about something important, and this kind of technique can at least we know what kind of situation we are dealing with.
How to tell if someone is trying to bluff...
Bluffing is a word that means someone is pretending to be safe when they are in a difficult situation and are trying to get away with something. They want desperately to manipulate in the belief that they are secure and have great power and advantage when in fact they do not.
They hope that if they pretend to be safe, you will be deceived back or give in.
By showing of confidence, try to intimidate the other card players on reversing type so you can win. Therefore, you will try to look confident and happy when he looks around your table.
So very often a sign of confidence is actually a sign that a person is lying. Because a person who actually has an advantage that does not need to try to act confident. All persons who are lying have one thing in common - they want to feel they have some powerful advantages so they try to transmit this confidence to act.
Very often, they try too hard. Remember that when a person is truly secure in their position or power, they do not require too much effort to convince them safe.
