subject: How to Get an Ex Back Who Left Because You Couldn't Be More Open or Change to Save the Relationship! [print this page] How to Get an Ex Back Who Left Because You Couldn't Be More Open or Change to Save the Relationship!
In relationships, alot of us take things for granted. We need to know how to get an ex back who left because they want more from us. When we choose to go out with friends instead of staying home with them, or yell and get frustrated at them for something not important it hurts the relationship.
The ability to change is an asset that many people don't have and aren't willing to do. Being to change for another person is a powerful thing. There are thousands of quotes about love, but my favorite is "Love doesn't make the world go round, Love is what makes the ride worthwhile."
Change is the best thing for keeping love strong, and if you can't change for someone it makes it impossible to experience the things that make life worthwhile. Okay, now here's how to get an ex back who left. First you need to have a firm line of communication with your ex.
You don't want to make the common mistakes like exploding their phone with calls and texts, immediately giving them flowers, or dropping $300 on a diamond bracelet to try and buy your way back into their arms. You just need a way of letting your ex know that you want to get back together or that you want to talk about the break up and why it happened.
Whether you get your message to your ex by using their friends, family members or to your ex directly, just let them know how you feel. A good friend will tell your ex your message, they may even help you get your ex to meet you to talk about the break up.
The next thing you should do is meet with your ex and talk about the the problems that were in the relationships that caused it to sink. If you both can talk and identify those problems, then you both should begin making compromises and commitments to fix those problems so you can both start over.
We normally only get one chance when we get an ex back, and with that in mind, we gotta make the new start count. Make the relationship different than it was before by doing things that surprise your ex. Things that make your ex think you're doing something you never would have done before the both of you got back together.
