subject: I Want to Save My Marriage - Feel Like You're Losing Your Spouse in Your Marriage? Here's Help [print this page] I Want to Save My Marriage - Feel Like You're Losing Your Spouse in Your Marriage? Here's Help
We all have needs in life. One of the most important of those needs are companionship. Thousands of people across the globe are in a "I Want to Save My Marriage" crisis. Marriages where children are involved, newlyweds, and even elderly marriages experience problems that test the strength of their relationship.
The fact of the matter is that marriage is an extension of friendship. Its the greatest friendship you can have with a person. A friendship that truly makes you accept another person for better or for worse, take them in sickness and in health, and to love and to cherish till death takes you.
My god marriage is powerful and so many us take if for granted nowadays. We lose sight on what's important and before we even realize it, whats important is gone. We feel like there's nothing we can do except spend hundreds of dollars to sit next to our partner in front of a counselor and talk about the problems.
Either this or we end up getting divorced because we don't know what to do to save the marriage. There are three steps to saving a marriage. Those steps are first identifying the problems that are weighing the marriage down, make compromises and commitments to each other, and make the marriage different than it was before.
It should definitely go without saying that communication is the foundation of any relationship. Without communication, we'd all be in caves writing pictographs on rocks. You and your partner need to sit down, be open and honest as you talk about the problems you both feel are causing the marriage to sink.
You both identify those problems and then make compromises and commitments that show you both are going to do your part together to fix those problems. Just like we all stay committed to finishing school and going to work, you'll have to stay committed to fixing the problems in the marriage.
The next thing you should keep in mind about saving a marriage is that you should have the ability to change for the better. Change is a powerful force and no matter what Dr. House says on fox, change is a good thing. Always.
You need to be able to bring positive influences back into your marriage. Showing him that you can do things for him or showing her you can do things for her. You be spontaneous. Taking the initiative to prove that just because you are married, it doesn't mean that romance has left the building.
If you're thinking "I want to save my marriage," then what you read here should most definitely help.
