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Pop quiz: What is the most important sex organ on a woman? Do you know? How about on a man? OK, here's another one, what is the largest sex organ? If these sound like trick questions to you, then chances are that you don't know as much about sex as you think. For a woman, the most important area to stimulate is the brain. The largest sex organ is the skin. When it comes to pleasuring our mates, even couples that have been married for decades can be a little clueless. While it may seem harmless, not knowing how best to arouse and pleasure your mate can actually be a slippery slope that degrades your sex life. If you want to improve your sex life, one of the best things that you can do is to learn your mate's erogenous zones.
OK, great, so how do you do that? Is there a book you should read, or a video you should watch? Surprisingly the answer is no, unless it is a book written by your mate about your mate, or a video starring your mate. Every man and woman is different. Though our anatomy is all basically the same, we all feel things differently. For some women, the best way to arouse them sexually is to fondle their breasts and gently rub their nipples. For others it may be something as innocuous as nibbling on the ear lobes. Everyone is different. If you really want to pleasure your spouse, you need to learn what turns them on.
So how do you do that? Should you just ask? Asking is a great place to start, but unless your partner is very self aware, there is always the possibility that he or she may not know what really "does it for them". If you have always been doing the same things and always gotten the same results, the chances are pretty strong that your mate hasn't really explored any other ways, and simply does not know what else might turn them on.
So great, if he or she doesn't know, how will you be able to find out? Experiment. Try licking, kissing, gently nibbling and blowing on different parts of your spouse's body, even those that do not seem overtly sexual. Pay attention to your mate's reactions and don't be afraid or embarrassed to ask for feedback. Working together you can figure it out, and is there really any better way to improve your sex life then that?
