subject: How To Find & Keep A Good Relationship [print this page] I have been in a painful relationship, which I had been rejected by my partner every day. So I thought, no one will ever love me again, because it was not worth it. This belief became a reality in my life.
I did not think there was anyone out there that is interested on me. This course did the right thing.
Is it because I was unattractive? I have a good figure, light skin, I am fit and healthy, and although I looked like Richard Gere, I am certainly not ugly. Is it because I was financially unsafe? No, I had a good business, driving a fancy car and lived in a big house with a good view. So physically, there was nothing that will cause any problem. But it everything was only in my mind.
You see, deep down, I still had that attitude constraint, I am really lucky if get anyone who wanted to be with me. I felt like a shark that smells blood in the water. Describing how it was associated with a predator, but it has been an understatement.
The person that I am attracted with was a gold digger, she have no qualms about sleeping with whom she felt like being with. Was it her fault, yes, but it was more my fault. I realized that I allowed this to happen in my mind in the first place. I thought that this was the best thing I could find and had to accept about her conduct or else I will have nobody in my life at all.
It took some time, but in the end, I accepted that it was not really good, and many women could do much worse than being in a relationship with me. Now i also understood that there were indeed many thousands of potential partners for me.
As soon as I started to believe that there are so many fishes around the sea, the gate of heaven had opened. I kept running into potential partners in every corner, and I was out of the single life very quickly.
All I did was that I had to accept now that there is actually a complete abundance in our universe. There are a lot of right people. It was my choice to accept or reject this fact. That made the difference. Now my physical actions could lead me to my true desires.
I let my mind accept that anything is possible, and nothing could stand in the way. Understanding this, you have many options now. They let you do things in a more positive way. Realize that life end up teaching a nice instead of a painful lesson.
