subject: The Effect Of Lack Of Intimacy In A Relationship [print this page] If you are a lover, your passion is the connection, the intimacy of giving and receiving. Whether you are sharing your gifts and talents with the world at large, or you are having a one-on-one relationship, the couple's relationship, friendship, family, or a relationship with a coworker , you enjoy being with them. A connection with others makes you feel grounded, secure, needed, valued, supported, happy, and good about him, comforted and loved.
Since the relationship is the main focus of your life when you're not in a romantic relationship, you are probably looking for one. You can teach others how to love and 'do' intimacy/passion. When the lover is in bloom, they illuminate the world. The enthusiasm, creativity, charisma and become irresistible, it glows and lights others and helps them grow to their full potential.
But as the day it will feels like a night, the glare of the lover and his gloomy shadow. In the worst case, the lovers are "energy vampires", the excess of connectors that are fused with a grip that can be intensely become extinguisher. As the Vamp may become needy and desperate, self-centered, and exhaustion, in anger, it can whip up a storm and strike with deadly words, wanting to hurt those who have hurt them. Vamps can burn people in their lives with drama after drama.
Vampires can be very charismatic and engaging in relationships. By directing your attention in your direction, you can charm the people around you. This experience feels as if you are the most brilliant, fascinating creature in the universe. The problem is that it cannot last long. As soon as you have engaged, that is likely to move to greener pastures, because vampires are attracted only at night. Basically, they feel unworthy by day, so you do not want to be one of the members of any vamps right? Lovers have a special talent for intimacy, but until they learn to have self-care and giving without expecting anything in return, they often use moments of connection to feed the energy of others. They will seduce you and you will validate them in the mistaken belief that this gives them an identity. Sadly, they often do not know how dear and wonderful they are.
If these words seem a bit harsh, just remember that the Vamp is only the appearance of a friend without scarring the other person. Each "Passion of the signature" or, in the signature style of expression and seek fulfillment, both have qualities of light and darkness. We all have our part. Knowing the weaknesses of our passion, this really can help you overcome your phobia of commitment and discover your potentials in a relationship.
