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HOW TO SUCCEED (OR FAIL) AT MARRIAGE
HOW TO SUCCEED (OR FAIL) AT MARRIAGE

1. Is your relationship with this person based upon feelings or commitment? If you do not know the difference you may not be ready for marriage.

2. Is your relationship based on love as a feeling or love as an act of will? Again, if you do not know the difference, there could be BIG trouble.

3. Are there past unresolved hurts or emotional issues that you or the other person is not talking about?

4. How do you and the other person handle difficult situations or people? Is there a display of destructive anger?

5. Do you both know how to communicate with proper words and tone of voice?

6. Does either one of you hold back from expressing your likes and dislikes?

7. Do you know and respect the boundaries of the other person? Do you know what boundaries are and do you have them?

8. Do you allow the other person to be himself or herself?

9. What are your views on spiritual issues, and can you openly discuss them?

10. What are you attitudes toward your present or future in-laws?

11. What are you attitudes about sex?

12. Do you both have marketable skills, so that you can both help support a family, if needed?

13. What are your views on money and financial management?

14. Do you have well-defined beliefs about child rearing and discipline?

15. What are your beliefs regarding husband/wife roles and expectations?

16. Are you committed to each other, no matter what, or do you consider divorce as being an easy way out?

How did you do? Are you ready for marriage? Or maybe you have a lot of growing up to do still. The truth can hurt.

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