subject: Win Your Ex Back Even If They're With Someone Else [print this page] Win Your Ex Back Even If They're With Someone Else
You need to be realistic that it's not going to be easy to win your ex back once they've moved on, but it's not impossible either. Maybe just a little more complicated than if your ex were still single. But there is hope and you can still win your ex back.
It's heart wrenching to see your former partner with someone else after a breakup. You feel expendable, lonely and it hurts that they seem to be over you and the wonderful relationship you had. Here's how to go about winning your ex back even though they're dating someone else:
If you broke up in a civilized manner, but your ex quickly got into a another relationship, it hurts like hell. But you need to be strong and try to win your ex back in a dignified way. The idea is to avoid hurting others, and that includes your ex's new partner. Remember, you reap what you sow! It all comes back to you, so avoid creating bad karma by enjoying the idea of causing pain or heartbreak! The new partner is simply caught in the crossfire between you and your ex. Keep repeating the fact to yourself that they are not responsible for your breakup. It's easy and tempting to put the blame on them and forget the fact that the reasons why your ex broke up with you has nothing to do with this third party...
Even though you love your former partner and are sure you want to win your ex back, you first have to let them go. This can mean that both of you might end up seeing other people before you get back together. Keep in mind that if you're meant to be together and your love is real, you'll soon realize that you can't live without each other. Sometimes, it can take a third person to make your ex appreciate you and see that no one can replace the love the two of you shared.
Give each other the space and time to explore other avenues. This is a good test to see if your relationship is strong enough to withstand adversities. While exploring other options, keep in mind that it's not okay to hurt the person you or your ex is seeing. Breaking another's heart will make you feel guilty. Not to forget, the bad karma it would create! This is how you can win your ex back by first letting go...
