subject: Do I Want My Ex Back? - Don't Know For Sure If Getting Back Together Is a Good Thing? Here's Help [print this page] Do I Want My Ex Back? - Don't Know For Sure If Getting Back Together Is a Good Thing? Here's Help
We as human beings should all want to find a person to spend the rest our lives with. If you are wondering, "Do I want my ex back?" then should first realize if you were able to share your joys, sorrows, and accomplishments with your ex. If so, then you should want to get your ex back.
Losing a person who makes us feel happy is a rough ordeal to go through. Its a blessing when we find a person like that in life. Someone who you know doesn't want you to ever be lonely. This is something that some people don't get.
One thing that is for certain is that none of us are immune to break ups. We all can experience a bad break up, the one that makes us desperate to do something immediately or we feel like its too late. Fortunately, it is possible to "undo" a break up and here's how.
The first thing you need to do is change into a "new you". You need to do this because you need to show your ex that the that you know the "old you" that was in the relationship didn't help save it. By changing I mean doing things like working out, a new look, a new job, or just a new hobby. Something positive.
Another thing is to make sure never to beg your ex to get back together. This is that desperation I was talking about earlier. This will only make you seem like you don't want to fix anything, you just want to beg for them to come back. This will probably annoy your ex.
By begging I mean doing things like overloading their phone with calls and texts. This will definitely annoy your ex get your number blocked on their phone. Now what you should do to get back together with your ex is to maintain a line of communication with your ex in some way.
Not a nagging communication, but a way of having a conversation with your ex. At least something to let your ex know how you're feeling. You can do this by talking to your ex's friends or if you are talking to your ex, then you should talk about the relationship and the problems that ended it.
Always make compromises and commitments that show the relationship won't be the same as it was before. When you're talking to your ex, show confidence and show that you can live without them. When they see how well you're doing, they may want to talk about getting back together too. This is how to answer the question, "Do I want my ex back?"
