subject: I Want My Ex Back Now! - Realize You Don't Want to Be Without Your Ex? Here's How to Get Them Back [print this page] I Want My Ex Back Now! - Realize You Don't Want to Be Without Your Ex? Here's How to Get Them Back
The break up has happened, and timed has healed things. If with all that time away from your ex, you can't stop thinking "I want my ex back now!," then what you should first understand is that the process of reconciling or getting back together with a partner takes time.
What you want isn't impossible, but it'll take effort and patience for it to happen. I know what you may be thinking, "I want my ex back right now. I don't want to wait or think, I just want my ex back right now, this minute!" This is the most common reaction following a break up, but you absolutely can't rush to your ex's face and pour out your feelings right after you've broken up.
The road to recovery in a relationship takes time, especially if there was a history of infidelity or secrecy. Here's what you need to do to rekindle that passion between you and your ex so you can get back together. The first thing to do is stay in contact with your ex's friends.
If you are somehow still talking with your ex's friends, keep that friendship between them. That friendship is an all access pass to your ex's life, and a possible doorway to getting communication started again between you and your ex. If your ex's friend realizes that you genuinely want to get back together, then they may help you do that.
Alot of us, right after a break up, tend to start calling and texting our ex's phone like crazy. Instead of successfully annoying your ex, contact their friend and see if they can tell you anything about what's going on with your ex.
This is great whether you're the one who has left, or they did. If you're thinking, "I want my ex back now!," then what you have to do is establish communication between the two of you. This is may be difficult because there are those whose ex is already seeing someone else.
Just have a stream of communication with your ex. Whether you have to talk to the friend and they message the ex, or you are talking to your ex directly. An line of communication is the only way you can express how you feel to your ex, and let them know that you want to be together again.
Prove to your ex that the relationship won't be the same as it was before, and talk to each other about the problems that cause the relationships to sink. If you can compromise and commit to each other again, you can get your ex back.
