subject: Save Your Marriage After Cheating – How To Get Your Second Chance [print this page] Save Your Marriage After Cheating How To Get Your Second Chance
It takes more than fancy flying to save your marriage after cheating. Far too few people are willing to do whatever it takes to save their marriage and never even try. Fortunately for you, it doesn't take as much effort as you've been led to believe to get the second chance you were hoping for.
These simple steps are very effective at not only getting the attention of your ex but also for getting your ex in the right frame of mind to offer forgiveness. Don't put any of these steps to work for you though until you follow the link near the bottom to watch an extremely important FREE video that explains the one thing you must NEVER do too.
1) Stop assigning blame. There is no room for blame in your efforts to save your marriage after cheating. If you're like most people in the world you want to believe that all the problems in the marriage belong to the other person. The truth of the matter is that neither of you are perfect and neither of you are blameless. You both bring strengths, weaknesses, flaws, and bonuses to the marriage. Sometimes it's the very flaws that make you so attractive to the other person. Other times, they drive them crazy to no end. But pointing fingers and laying blame accomplishes nothing at all productive for the sake of your marriage.
2) Start planning for the future. You can't live your marriage by the seat of your pants. If you don't have plans to go somewhere together then your marriage is really going nowhere fast. It's true. You don't have to have it planned down to the minute but the two of you do need to have goals to work towards if you want to save your marriage. Sit down with your wife and talk about what you'd like to do in the future, where you'd like to go, and begin making plans (as a couple) to accomplish those goals and achieve those dreams together.
3) Adopt a positive attitude. Attitude can be everything when the time comes to make your marriage work. If you want to save your marriage after cheating and get the second chance you've been looking for then you need to be positive in thoughts and actions. Avoid speaking in a negative manner and become the biggest force in the world for positive thinking when it comes to the success of your marriage. You will be surprised and amazed at just how much of an impact that will have on your ultimate success.
