subject: Weekend Sex? - Say No, Enjoy Spontaneously [print this page] Most of the married couples fall into the habit of having sex on weekends for a number of reasons:
Husband's tough working schedule
Wife's employment
Following a common notion of weekend sex
Adding spice to weekend closeness
No other intimate activity
You may also be one of those couples who take it as a divine binding to engage in weekend sex for any of the above or other reasons. If so, please put a big red cross on all weekends on your bedroom calendar. However, it does not mean that by doing so you will banish your sensual and sexual emotions from late night snuggling together, watching television or a romantic movie, intimate talk, preparing dinner or having a shower together.
Saying no to a fixed schedule of weekend sex will create new prospects of enjoying physical pleasure more intimately. Breaking the shackles of weekend slavery means opening up doors to creative ways of achieving true fulfillment and satisfaction.
Weekend narrows down your focus on forced achievement of a goal that is not meant for a realistic and mutual attainment of lasting delight. You feel obliged to prepare yourself for and indulge, whether you like it or not, in a ritual that is certainly not an abnormal act by any means but also not a preferable one in any sense as well. You may have experienced, even after having an exploding orgasm, as if you have done your job or fulfilled your duty obediently. However, the fulfillment achieved through an unscheduled but spontaneous sex is far more enthralling and fascinating.
The best way that I usually suggest to people, for deriving maximum pleasure from legitimate sex, is through tantric sex techniques. Tantric sex truly elevates its participants to a much higher spiritual, emotional and erotic plane activating all the pertinent sources of erotic energy.
It is possible to experience lasting joy of sex resulting in total fulfillment for days or even weeks by engaging all the modes of personal communication. It would be a slow process that could continue for days on but very much rejoicing. Start any day from an erotic gaze, moving on day by day, through surprise embraces, softly caressing hot spots like earlobes, lips, cheeks, nape of the neck, sudden kisses to sensual massage, mutual shower (always preferable) and finally to physical union.
Applying this approach will take you to the heights of incredible pleasure enhancing the bondage of intimate love between you and your soul-mate and strengthening your relationship. Adding candle-light dinners, long and silent hand-in-hand walks, sitting together in parks observing nature, combing each other's hair, moving the tip of tongue on the palm of your spouse and acts like these can make your love making spicier if it is spontaneous, not as a scheduled house chore.
So, say no to weekend sex and explore new horizons of intimate pleasure.
