subject: T Dub Magic Of Making Up - Is It A Scam? [print this page] T Dub's Magic of Making Up guide is a popular online system for people who are having relationship problems or people who have recently had a break up and are looking to get back together. The author is TW Jackson, (also known as "T Dub" for short.
T Dub is not a certified counsellor or a psychologist. He is a regular guy who, according to his site, has lots of experience dealing with all kinds of people and relationship problems due to his experiences living all over the world with the military. The story goes that he was so adept at understanding people and assisting couples to solve their issues, that he became the "go to" guy among his friends and military colleagues when they were having relationship issues.
THE BASIC IDEA
The idea behind the Magic of Making Up is quite simple - If you can teach yourself methods to help cut through the emotional drama that comes with a break up or relationship trouble, you can get into a position where you are more able to get to the bottom of your issues. Tbe issue, say TW Jackson, is that couples in the middle of a break up are so caught up in the emotions involved, that they have a hard time thining clearly about what the actual cause of the fight is. Often, the cause ends up being pretty simple when it is looked at calmly.
The manual covers a whole host of techniques that attempt to teach you exactly what to say and do in different situations to calm the chaos, get to the bottom of your issues, and bring the love back.
IS IT A SCAM?
TW Jackson's Magic of Making system is not a scam. There are lots of testimonials from customers who have used the system, both on TW Jackson's website and other places on the net.
However, this does not mean that the manual is a good fit for anyone and everyone looking to resolve relationship issues. One thing to keep in mind a "do-it-yourself" manual such as this ultimately depends on YOU to take action. It is different than having a relationship counsellor right in front of you instructing you and guiding you through the process of understanding your problems. For those who need an outside motivator or guide, professional counseling is probably a better choice.
If you are looking into a "self-help" approach such as TW Jacksons Magic of Making Up, keep in mind that you will have to put aside time to read and understand the material, and that YOU have to provide the follow through for any change to occur.
