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In case you've ever wanted one, here's a sure-fire, step-by-step guide any man can use to make meeting women fun and easy!
Here's a question for you
(And be honest now, otherwise I won't be able to help you!)
Do you find meeting women difficult? Is your fear keeping you from taking the actions you need to meet women, and causing you to feel lonely and helpless?
If that's the case, don't sweat it. I'm going to share with you some killer tidbits of advice that you can start using right away to meet some great women, and help you overcome your fear and take control of your love life!
Meeting women should be a piece of cake. After all, that's what you're biologically programmed for, right?
Wrong.
Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)
Knowing how to meet women is something you LEARN, not something you're "born with."
You must LEARN how to meet women, just like you have to learn to speak, walk, or do long division.
This is a SKILL. Skills don't come naturally, they have to be learned!
If you don't currently know how to meet women and you find it difficult don't worry! There is NOTHING wrong with you. The fact is you just haven't had enough experience yet to make meeting women something that's fun and easy.
Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who's fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what's necessary to overcome that fear and meet women.
This is because they underestimate the power that this fear has on their lives! And they justify this fear of meeting women by focusing on all of the bad things that could happen.
Some guys have such a dim view of themselves as attractive men that they think a girl they're interested in is going to laugh at them, or dismiss them, or tell them off. Maybe she'll throw her drink in their face, or maybe they'll get beaten up by her boyfriend!
If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT approach women! You're giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.
Bottom line: You are practicing FAILURE.
Understand most of those things almost never happen in the real world!
Maybe these fears were developed when you were younger and had a bad experience with girls possibly in the junior high / middle school age range where some girl rejected you. Or worse, you saw these fears become realized on TV or in the movies, and that made you believe they apply to real life.
It is highly unfortunate that so many men let irrational fears shape their beliefs and attitudes about how to meet and date women that they keep to this very day!
Conversely, some of their classmates were fortunate enough to have positive experiences early on with girls and sex. Those experiences helped to define their attitudes and beliefs about meeting women, which helped set them up for success as they matured.
But here's some good news even if you weren't a lucky "early bloomer," you are still able to take control of any fear you may have about meeting women. Just because you didn't have early success, doesn't mean you can't still be extremely successful with the ladies!
You will need to examine and change your current beliefs and attitudes that are currently holding you back from having real success with women, and re-learn what you "think" you know about how to meet women and start training yourself to meet them the RIGHT WAY.
But that's difficult for most guys to do. It's no problem to say you want to learn how to meet women easily, but it's doing the work that's the hardest part. You need to want it badly enough!
Do you want to be the kind of guy who let's every opportunity with women pass him by because he's too scared to take it?
When you see an attractive woman you'd like to meet, just start talking to her, even if you don't know what to say.
You can ask for her opinion about something. You can ask for directions. You can playfully tease her about something she's doing or wearing.
At least make an effort to take an interest in her and be curious about who she is as a person. Pay her a genuine and sincere compliment! What do you have to lose?
Quickly figure out something to talk to her about exact words aren't as important as the act of walking over to her and engaging her in conversation. If you let too much time pass by from the second you see her to the time you start talking, you give yourself a chance to chicken out. (If this freaks you out, memorize some good opening lines beforehand so you'll know what to say.)
Don't try and measure success based on if you got her phone number or a date. Just the simple act of approaching a woman and talking to her makes you a winner, because you did something that 80% of the other men out there wouldn't have done! And the more you can do that, the greater your chances of meeting that one special woman.
