subject: Playing the Jealousy Card to Get Your Ex Back - It Will Never Work! [print this page] Playing the Jealousy Card to Get Your Ex Back - It Will Never Work!
A popular question that arises in the mind of individuals, who have recently changed their status from committed to single, is whether playing the jealousy card can help you get your ex back. It's natural to think this way because normally when couples break up, they want to draw their ex's attention to themselves.
Many people are under the misconception that jealousy can help you get your ex back. It's a mistake that most people make and end up completely ruining any chances of reuniting with their ex's. The reason is that you have to understand that your ex isn't necessarily thinking like you are. If you know you would feel jealous to see your ex with someone else, that's probably not going to be the case with your ex.
Instead, each time your ex gets a flashback of the picture of you with someone else, he/she will be reminded of the 'fact' that you are over him/her, and not interested anymore. So even if your ex was initially thinking of coming back to you, they will slip the idea out of their mind for good, and you will loose them forever.
If you really love them and want to truly have them back, remember that jealousy will not help you to get your ex back. Don't try such nasty tactics and mind games. There are many other ways to get back together with your ex, and arousing feelings of jealousy is not one of them. Just don't do it!