subject: Reverse Psychology - Get Your Ex Back by Telling Them You Don't Want Them! [print this page] Reverse Psychology - Get Your Ex Back by Telling Them You Don't Want Them!
When you experience a breakup, you want to make your ex return because you're drowning in a pool of emotional feelings of sorrow, dismay, and emptiness. You feel like the only thing that can end this is your ex coming back to you. So the first thing that comes to your mind to make your ex return is to speak your heart out to them, and just be honest in telling them how bad you feel and how desperate you are to have them back. This is a straight NO-NO! Doing this only improves your ex's ego, and shows you as a weakling with no life. Nobody wants a weakling. This will get you dumped for sure, and degrade your self esteem further.
Before you make your ex return, ask yourself, 'Why do I feel so low?' Of course, it's because you broke up. But that's the eventual result. The reasons are different. You feel dismayed because you feel unwanted, disowned, and thrown out by the person you least expected this from. You could do anything at this point to have your ex love you again, so you think that the best solution to end this feeling is to ask your ex to come back. This is wrong! The way to get over this feeling is to simply pass it on to your ex!
To make your ex return, turn the tables. Start making them feel unwanted, instead of yourself. You simply need to agree with your ex's decision of breaking up. Tell your ex that you're fine with the decision. Say it with a confident smile, and walk away. Don't look back, don't try to contact your ex, and don't seem interested to make your ex return. This way you get the upper hand, and you're the one ditching the person rather than your ex. They'll end up wondering why you don't miss them, and want to get back with you.
