subject: Can You Get Her To Come Back Even When She Is Dating Someone Else? [print this page] When you find out that your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, how does it make you feel?
Does it make you want to give up on getting her back, OR, does it make you want to try harder to win back the woman you love?
A lot of times, guys will wait until the last minute before they try to take action to save or salvage a relationship. And then, they find out that their girlfriend has left them, and before you know it, she is off dating another dude. So, what should you do when you find out that your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else?
Should you try to win her back?
Now, it really depends on your situation. I know that is not the magic bullet answer that you probably want to hear, but in some cases, once your ex-girlfriend has found a new guy, then it's pretty much time to close the chapter on that book.
Then there are some situations where it is actually a good thing if your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else. It gives her someone to compare you to, and as long as you were not a complete jerk during the relationship, it can actually boost your chances of getting her back in the end.
Whatever your situation is, don't just limit yourself to getting back with your ex-girlfriend.
Since she is out there meeting and dating new people, you should do the same thing. It will keep you from obsessing over your ex-girlfriend, make you see whether or not your ex-girlfriend really is the one that you want to be with, and keep you with an active and healthy social life.
Here's why it can help you to get your girlfriend back:
What do you think she is going to think about you if she finds out that you are sitting at home, yearning for her while she is off dating a new guy?
It's going to make her think that you are desperate for her. It's also going to make her see you as less desirable, as without her, you don't seem to be able to attract women at all. Women are not attracted to guys that are sitting at home and feeling sorry for themselves. Not even if she is your ex-girlfriend.
When she knows that you too are out there dating, it can make her feel jealous, and want to have you back all to herself. It can also make her see YOU as being more attractive, as she knows that other women want you.
