subject: Getting Your Ex Back - Reverse Psychology Helps [print this page] Getting Your Ex Back - Reverse Psychology Helps
If you are thinking whether it is possible to get forget the past and get your ex back then here's the good news. Getting your ex back is possible you just need to know the right tactics for that. At this point of time when your mind and emotions are not stable you need to think carefully about the pros and cons of any decision or step that you take. After you've had a break up the first thing that your ex expects is that you will try to contact them or be after them to come back to you. But, this is not part of your plan. What you need to do is to avoid doing anything your ex expects you to do and do just the opposite. Being counter intuitive is what is actually going to help you to win your ex back. When your ex starts avoiding you, the first thing that you do is to pick up the phone and keep on calling them or send them lots of emails and text messages. You just seem to them as a jerk who is constantly irritating them. This only makes the situation worse and lowers the possibilities of Getting your ex back. No, don't worry too much if you have already made this mistake of calling your ex constantly. Things are not yet out of hand and the situation can still be taken care of. Now read the plan of action given below very carefully. If you have been calling your ex till date then you need to completely stop all communication with them right now. Do not contact your ex for at least a month. This might create suspense and your ex might wonder why you have stopped contacting them suddenly. So, in the future whenever you try to contact your ex they might be open to communication then. Your sudden disappearance from their life might lead them to answer your calls and this might be your chance to get your ex back into your life. When you call your ex after a gap of thirty days and they aren't able to receive your calls because they are busy, don't call them again the same day. Give them some more time, let some days go by with no communication and then call them. The key in getting your ex back is to maintain your dignity and not get down to begging and pleading and at the same time making your ex curious with your sudden disappearance.
