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Wondering how to approach a guy you like? Do you want to talk to him but your feet seemed glued to the floor? Gather up your courage and take a deep breath because here are some tips on how to approach a guy you like and strike up a conversation:
Smile
A smile can do wonders for you. It can make you look friendly and approachable and it can hide your nervousness. It can even make you look confident and send the right signals of being interested. You can be nervous and intimidated to approach him, but he doesn't have to know that. When you smile you appear confident and friendly, and a beautiful smile can mesmerize a guy.
Overcome shyness
Work on your confidence and try to overcome your shyness. If he sees you are a confident woman, then chances are he'll be attracted to you. Don't worry too much about what you're going to say next. Just let the conversation flow. Make a great impression by showing him you're comfortable in your own skin. But be careful not to cross the border of arrogance. You can be confident but not cocky. Just make it look like you know he's interested in you too.
Compliments
Flattery will get you somewhere. Give him a few compliments to make him feel good. It's also a good way to break the ice. Tell him you like how his hair looks or how his shirt compliments his eyes. You may think it's clich, but to him it's like "hot girl thinks I'm hot." Just be sure you compliment him on how he looks today. If you say something like "I like that shirt you wore last Saturday" then it will not work. Also, it can freak out the guy because you knew what he was wearing several days ago.
Do it alone
One of the best tips on how to approach a guy is to do it alone. Don't ask your friends to stay behind you as your support team. If he sees a pack of girls moving his way he might get intimidated. He'll be more comfortable if it's just you. Save the pack trips to the bathroom. Besides, if it's just the two of you then you'll get the chance to get to know each other better.
