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Compassion and sensitivity is important in any relationship. If you want to get your ex back now, then you need to be more compassionate. Prove to them that you really want to make the relationship work and that you'll try harder to be more sensitive.
Here are a few tips on how to be more compassionate in relationships:
Don't jump to conclusions
Try to be more understanding if your ex failed to give you lots of compliments in the past. If you've spent hours preparing their favorite meal and they fail to compliment you, don't immediately jump to conclusions. Perhaps they just have a lot in their minds.
Don't let emotions run high and let it get to you. Figure out first if there's something else going on before you jump down their throats. Don't immediately come to the conclusion that they don't care about you.
Give them compliments
Now it's your turn to be aware of what your ex has done for you. Maybe there was a time or two when it was you who have failed to give them compliments. It would be best to pay more attention and try not to take them for granted.
If you want to get your ex back, you need to prove to them that they're appreciated. Show your gratitude for all they've done for you and apologize for the times you've failed to notice their efforts.
Always taking
We all have selfish moments, thinking that everything should be about us. But it's not, and thinking so much about yourself can lead to unhappiness. We always take, and we forget to give back.
Relationships are about giving as well. Give them time, attention, compassion, and gratitude. If you had plans but your ex is too tired to go anywhere, then compromise and make plans another time. Unless you can show your ex that you're willing to make sacrifices and compromise, then they wouldn't want to come back to you.
Mood changes
Everyone's mood can change, it's how you handle it that counts. If you were once too hot-headed, always jumping the gun and getting too angry too soon, then maybe it's time for a little reinvention.
Change your bad attitudes and practice keeping your emotions under control. To get your ex back now, show them that you won't let your emotions get in the way.
