subject: What to Say When He Breaks Up with You – These Words Will Win Him Back [print this page] What to Say When He Breaks Up with You These Words Will Win Him Back
You're wondering what to say when he breaks up with you. You've been dumped and now you feel as though you're stuck in a puddle of emotions and you don't know what to do. As much as you feel the sharp and unwavering pain of rejection, you still can't stop thinking about him. Getting him back is what you want. You just don't know what to do or say to make that happen. Fortunately, if you follow some proven advice you can completely shift the dynamic of the relationship so you're the one in control of things and he's the one begging you to come back to him.
When you're thinking about what to say when he breaks up with you, consider trying to remove your emotions from the equation. Typically when a man dumps a woman and she still loves him she'll tell him that she can't live without him, or she'll beg him to come back. Doing this feels natural and in many cases a woman feels compelled to tell a man that she'll never love anyone else. If you do these things, he's not going to view them as romantic or touching. Instead, he'll see you as desperate and pathetic.
What you should be saying to your guy if you eventually want to reignite the romance between the two of you is that you're okay with the break up. Telling him that you accept that things are over will be hard but it can change everything. If you can find the strength to tell him that you feel it was a good thing or that you were considering it too, that's even better. If you do that, it makes him feel the same sense of rejection that you are currently feeling. It will eat at him and bother him endlessly.
The next thing to say to your boyfriend when he breaks up with you, is nothing at all. For a few weeks after the break up, you should avoid the man at all costs. By not contacting him, you're sending several important silent messages to him. You're letting him know that you're not so out of control emotionally that you can't accept the way things are. You're also making him see that your life doesn't hinge on your relationship with him. If a man feels that a woman is pulling away, even a woman he dumped, he'll want her back. It's the old adage of wanting things you can't have. If you stay silent, and away from him, he'll feel he can't have you anymore and suddenly you become incredibly appealing.
