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If you are on the verge of breaking up you will want to know how to save your relationship before it's too late. Even if you have already broken up it most likely isn't too late if you take the right actions.
You will be searching for information from your friends and family, from professional councillors and from the Internet. Well meaning people who care about you will give you advice on how to save your relationship some of it may be good advice, but some of it will be just the wrong thing to do
Professional councillors may be excellent (and some fall short or simply don't suit you). But it can be inconvenient to go to their place to see them at a time of their choosing and at a price they set, which is sometimes quite stiff. You may want to keep things to yourself and not want a third party around you may meet fellow sufferers in the waiting area. Many people in your situation just want to get on with it and repair the relationship as soon as possible.
This means you are likely to be searching the Internet and there is plenty of choice out there! Over 6 million entries on Google's search engine last time I looked. And many of them, especially the free ones, offer advice that may be dubious at best. One example is that they say ignore your loved one and work on yourself! That's one good way to give your partner the message that you care more about yourself than about them and indifference kills love like nothing else.
But it does have a grain of truth in that advice. You are unlikely to save your relationship if you are working in panic mode. You do need to calm yourself down, believe that you can win your lover back, and then find and follow a road map to repairing the rift.
It's crucial to get your self in the right frame of mind, and then to start looking at your partnership with an unbiased eye. Where does your partner feel you are to them? How can you use this information to start to make a plan for getting back together? What should you do next and then what? Having a plan in your mind will make it a lot easier to implement a course of action which will achieve your desire.
Finding the best plan for yourself is the hardest part but don't spend too long looking for the perfect program it may not exist for your particular situation. But some of the very best e-books do actually have contact details so that you can get in touch with the author for some adjustments which will suit you better. It is worth seeing what other people have said about the book. Has it been helpful to them? Has it dealt with really hard situations? Has the advice enabled others to save their relationship? Is it easy to read and follow the steps or is it shrouded in mumbo-jumbo?
And saving your relationship when it is turning sour should not be the end product you need to know how to maintain and keep your special relationship just that special, at all times.
