subject: Where Can I Find Help In Getting My Relationship Back On Track? [print this page] You might have found yourself recently in the marketplace for books on relationships. If, like a friend of mine, you have just broken up with your ex, you may be wondering where to even start with all the many resources out there currently.
In this brief writing, I will give you a few tips on how to choose the best books on relationships, that will save both your valuable time and money. First of all, don't be misled by the initials B.A, P.h.d, Dr, Prof. etc after an author's name. Such titles often indicate an academically minded individual , who often has used education as a means in itself, rather than a life-skill tool to be used for self betterment.
Often these people live in ivory towers, divorced from the real world that you and I inhabit. They come across as" experts" -- but how much do they really know? Did you know, by the way, that in America today it is possible, for a fee, to buy a degree! Any kind you want is available for a price.
I am not for a moment suggesting that all qualified intellectuals are crooked. Most of them are decent individuals who have worked hard for their degrees. I simply want you to be aware of the facts, and not be overly impressed by people with letters after their names.
So -- you should look for books by authors who have lived life -- who have first-hand experience of navigating the perils of bad relationships for themselves- authors who have found a way through the emotional entanglements.
It's also important that the method that they have discovered is also transferable, can be taught in a simple way, and above all, genuinely works! Bottom line -- authors who are battle scarred are the ones you should give heed to.
You need books that don't simply give advice such as -- chill out for a month or so- work on yourself in the meantime -- it's probably all your fault anyway -- tough!
This is the gist --( maybe a trifle exaggerated) -- of most of the books or courses on offer at the moment. Some of these works can be no more than 50 or so pages of basically, waffle!
A book that gives you real meat and not milk, one whose principles are tried and tested and true, is hard to find.
I have good news -- I have found such a book. This skilful work tells you, amongst other things -- what women crave the most; how to recover from a broken affair -- how to get pain relief -- all through step -- by -- step methods, that genuinely work. And that you can't get even from your dearest friends.
In conclusion, notice who is advocating the book or the course. Books recommended by a broad category of different people are what you need. People from different walks of life and even different countries and cultures. If it works for them, the likelihood is, it will work also for you.
The one that I found, ticks all the boxes. It is called The Magic of Making Up by T Dub Jackson.
It is a best seller simply because it genuinely works. I guarantee you. By the way, so does the author! Take a peek and draw your own conclusion. Just click the link, if it's broken, simply copy and paste into your browser.
