subject: Dating Tips For Men-starting A Good Conversation [print this page] When it comes to dating, every man wants to know how to start a decent conversation with a woman, well, here's how...
1. First, it is crucial that you establish good eye contact. The eyes are the windows of your soul, and have a visual connection really show and tells the woman if she were interested.
To establish good eye contact, look intently, and keep looking a bit larger than usual. If you catch her looking at you a couple of times, that's all good. You want to draw your attention, so keep in touch with her.
But be careful not to look like a maniac; you do not want to sound like a complete moron, especially if you're with your friends.
2. Second, take a look around. What's going on around you? At this point, the key is finding a theme, from which you can start a decent light conversation.
3. After a couple of minutes, ask her name, and since that time, you can start to relax because you've done much that is initiating contact with someone whom you did not know.
As a general rule, stay away from sensitive topics such as politics, religion, ex-girlfriends and sports (unless you're in a gym or you know that she likes sports).
Try not to talk about negative things and stay as positive as possible. Remember, keep fresh and light.
4. So now you know that you exist, and that you have had a light conversation, you should not be talking too long, at least not the first time like talking about the picture of Will Smith in the movie Hitch, when both of you are in a club.
And just after you leave, you can see of the woman and look up in your direction, you should go. This is a great technique that daters successfully use: let the woman has a peak and closed the door. The aim is to make them wanting more.
A lot of guys get good things when they had a good conversation, but after a while the conversation becomes lame and the time they ask for your number, he was gone, maybe not physically, but mentally.
I know this may sound crazy, but it is a necessity. So you should politely thank her for the conversation, and tell them you have to go back to your friends / family / home, whatever.
Learning how to start a good conversation with a woman is vital to have a success in your love life. Also you should displays the right attitude by not showing her that you're desperate and surely, you'll automatically get the dates more than you could have dreamed of.
