subject: Dating Tips- A Guide To A Perfect Date [print this page] Ask a woman what is her perfect date and the answer probably will run along the lines of a pleasant evening with a quiet dinner and good conversation. Perhaps, this followed by a nice moonlit walk hand in hand with her handsome man. Stop for a drink or desert and more conversation / flirting. In other words, a romantic slow accumulation that may or may not lead to something more intimate.
Ask a guy the same question and the answer is pretty obvious, especially when he's talking to his friends.
That just goes to show that a man and a woman at the same time and place who shares the same experience were thinking about two different things.
So the question is that do ideal dates really exist here? Probably only in our minds as a map of how we would like to go, but reality has a way to screw even the best plans.
But that does not mean we cannot try to have the perfect date. And it need not be a one-time thing, because let's be honest, the whole purpose of a first date (unless things go very wrong) is to have a second date and many after that. And while not all dates will be perfect or as good as before, with a little planning and advice, there is no reason why you cannot shoot for a high standard date every time.
There are plenty of guides to dating and dating ideas out there. And that is a good thing, especially for men. Because men know how hard it is to come up with original date ideas, and that in itself is what makes a perfect date. Original ideas! You have to change your gear; you cannot be doing the same-over and over again, go to the same place each time. That's not a date, which is repetition and boring. And anything outside the metro provides better not just a boring repetition.
Another thing to remember is that you do not have to use any ideas word for word to memorize. In other words, do not try to copy exactly what the guru of the date submitted. Take that idea and give it your personal touch. And that depends on you, the date that you really want to be you. So his ideas date, even if they are not originally yours- add your own personality to make your idea unique and that it is as near perfect as you can get.
