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If you can choose between a romantic relationship and a dull and lifeless one, which would you choose? Unquestionably you would choose romance. At the start of your marriage your days were filled with excitement and eagerness, thus filling your relationship with excitement and enthusiasm.
But through the years, that same passion may have weakened without you noticing it, because of the stresses that married life brings. The lack of romance can bring more stress into the marriage and you may find yourself now pondering what you can do to save the relationship and get back the love.
First off, take stock of what you relationship is like now. Have you held hands with your partner lately? When was the last time you really kissed? Do you still shower your spouse with caresses like you used to? Is sex still the same great experience that you share with each other? Or has it become routine or worse non-existent?
Many marriages have deteriorated and some have ended in divorce simply because spouses have forgotten to make time for romance. And because both partners are not aware that maintaining the passion is one of most important factors to a successful marriage, they go on finding ways to save the relationship without considering this aspect.
Touching, caressing, holding. These are fundamental elements for couples to enhance their union. Generally, couples discount the physical aspect; when they have provided for the family, paid the bills and sent the kids to school, most couples feel that their task is done, forgetting that they have to set aside time for themselves.
Renew the romance and inflame the passion in your marriage to save the relationship and do it now before it is too late. As they say prevention is better than cure. Direct your efforts into determining ways to bring the spark back. Have fun with your spouse. Go on a date once a week without the kids. It doesn't matter how old you are, there is always room for romance. You might be thinking that you are too old for these things. Well think again. Romance knows no age. Be innovative. Find ways to bring excitement into your lovemaking. You may even learn things that delight your partner that you never thought of before. And you and your spouse will experience that spark coming back again - that twinkle in your eye that illustrates the contentment that you both feel.
Have you tried giving your spouse a massage? Besides making your partner feel good, it gives you both an opportunity to connect physically. This is a powerful way to recover the affection that may have been lost over time. Loosen up and laugh again with your spouse. Laughter can be an ice breaker and can be a great first step in your bid to save the relationship from boredom and monotony.
You can think of more things to do to bring back the spark. And it will really be up to you. Bring back the romance and intimacy and watch your relationship get back to where it should be.
