subject: Make Your Ex Desperate to Get You Back [print this page] Make Your Ex Desperate to Get You Back Make Your Ex Desperate to Get You Back
There is a big difference between an ex that comes back, and and ex that is desperate to have you back. An ex that comes back offers you little guarantee that they will stay with you. The ex that is that is desperate to have you back in their life offers some assurance that they are willing to do what it takes to keep you there. If you prefer the second one, and really who wouldn't, then read these tips to learn how you can make your ex desperate for you.
Relax
Rather than locking yourself in a room and crying until your pillow is soaked, take a deep breath and chill out. Find ways to occupy the time that you now have on your hands. Go out with friends, read that book you've been meaning to but never had the time for. Your ex will see that you aren't withering away with longing for them, and that will make them sit up and take notice.
Learn to do "I" things instead of "we" things
This is probably going to take some getting used to as you are accustomed to spending a lot of time with your ex. Just because you broke up, doesn't mean you can't still do some of the things that you did together. Life goes on, and the sooner you show you can be a complete person without your ex, the sooner they will realize that you are fun to be around.
Keep your distance
The likelihood that your ex is considering a reconciliation is pretty high at this point. Why? Because they miss you as much as you miss them. If you can keep a cool and calm exterior, your ex will realize that they are miserable without you, and will make advances towards getting back together.
Challenge your ex
Fill your time with things that will only enrich the person you want to be. Take a new class, try a new hairstyle. In general, put yourself back together and become a better person. When your ex sees your new accomplishments, it will make them want to better themselves to be someone YOU want to be with. The thing to remember is that the fell in love with you once for a reason, and through it all, that reason hasn't gone away, just gotten lost.
