subject: How to Get Your Ex Back Without Looking Like a Stalker [print this page] How to Get Your Ex Back Without Looking Like a Stalker
Your ex is avoiding you. You believe with all your heart that if you could just talk to your ex, everything will work itself out.
There are probably numerous reasons why your ex is avoiding you. Your ex has feelings too, and they are probably just as miserable as you are over the breakup. The best way to get the ball rolling conversation wise is to follow the advice below.
Take a timeout
Stop the obsessive emails, text messages and telephone calls. Your ex isn't going to listen to what you have to say if you are pressuring them for a response. Your ex needs time to clear their head and get over the hurt feelings, and so do you.
Take it nice and easy
So you've given your ex some breathing room, and you bump in to them at a get together at a friends house. Do not avoid them, but don't break your neck trying to get to them. Act normally and casually, as if you were friends instead of former lovers. The more comfortable you are about being around your ex, the more comfortable they will be around you.
Be someone you would want to date
Always look your best, and always have fun while you are out. By having fun and being fun to be around, you will be more confident, and this will show in the way you interact with others. You will make new friends, and you will also cause your ex to look at you with a fresh perspective. Your ex was attracted to you once, and if you play your cards right, they will be attracted to you again.
