subject: How to Win Your Ex Back When They Have Been Unfaithful to Yo [print this page] How to Win Your Ex Back When They Have Been Unfaithful to Yo
When the love of your life is unfaithful, it is very hard to simply forgive and forget what happened, and you should really consider if you want to get back with your ex or not. Feelings of hatred and resentment almost make it impossible to ever look at that person the same ever again. The most important part of the situation is deciding if you really want to pursuit getting back with your ex. In some relationships, some people are willing to forgive, and move on with the relationship, and others are not. It is imperative that you do not allow yourself to be a doormat, and allow this infidelity to occur again.
Many people blame themselves for allowing the connection to deteriorate and become unfulfilling. It is imperative to remember that you did not let this situation to occur. The other person is completely responsible and needs to accept fault for being in the wrong. After that is established, you need time to actually forgive the person, and they need to prove themselves worthy of being capable of being in a relationship. When time has passed, and the healing process has begun, then you can decide if you trust you ex enough to get them back.
Everyone makes mistakes in their lives, and some will make more mistakes then others. You should hold your ex accountable for what they did, but also let a part of the resentment go. The person may have blemish and busted the relationship, but you cannot nag them, and hold them to that standard forever, or else the relationship will never work. If you love your ex enough, and want to win your ex back, then you have to forgive, and they must rebuild the trust. If you realize you will never have the ability to forgive and trust them, then the relationship is doomed to fail, and the person is just that much more likely to do it again.
In the process of winning your ex back, you must make it very clear that their behavior is not acceptable, and it will not be tolerated if it occurs again. Many individuals who forgive their ex's too early, and take them back immediately realize that it was a mistake. A cheater should never receive your trust automatically because of an apology, but by proving that they mean it over a period of time. If becoming unfaithful becomes the norm in the relationship, you will find yourself hurt and miserable, which no one should ever tolerate.
