subject: "The Sixth-Sense": Do Women really possess it? [print this page] "The Sixth-Sense": Do Women really possess it?
One of the biggest misconceptions about dating is that women are somehow "more intuitive" than men, that is, they are more discerning than men. Throughout history, human beings have always tried to use the supernatural to explain things that they do not understand. Even in today's scientific world, there are still many men who believe that women have a "special sixth sense". For example, people always say women can "tell" if a guy is a "player" or if he's an "insecure little boy."
After acquiring a lot of experience over the years, I can assure you that this is indeed NOT true. Women are NOT any more "psychic" than men, nor do they have any special supernatural power. They do NOT possess ANY insight towards men any more than you do towards them. They do NOT know if you're "lying" or "playing mind games". So, in short, the "sixth sense" is a myth.
Some of you may be thinking, "No way! I'm sure women have a sixth sense because they can always sense the insecurity from a guy a mile away." Yes, you might be right. They can sense insecurity by observing your actions. And you know what? There is NOTHING psychic or supernatural about this.
Just like every human being, women judge guys by looking at their PHYSICAL BEHAVIORS. They CANNOT read your thoughts any better than you can read theirs. The ONLY information they can rely on is based on your BEHAVIOUR.
Let's use an insecure guy as an example. When he goes to a party, he:
1. Hides in a dark corner.
2. Avoids eye contact with everybody.
3. Never initiates conversations.
4. Blushes when women talk to him.
5. Speaks so quietly that you can barely hear him.
6. Gets himself attached to a friendly woman like a little puppy.
7. Happily obeys whatever other people request him to do ...and so on.
Considering this, do you REALLY have to be a "psychic" to know that this guy is not the most confident guy on earth? I DON'T THINK SO!
Here is the lesson of today: People judge you according to your ACTIONS. They don't know what you are thinking. They only know how you are ACTING. Don't they say that actions speak louder than words? So it does not matter if you are the sexiest or the most caring guy "deep inside" when you're ACTING like a WUSSBAG or a LOSER. Women can't read your mind. They make their opinions about you based on your ACTIONS.
This is why it is so important for you to BEHAVE CORRECTLY in front of women. I want you to do the following exercise: Pick someone you know who is VERY good with women and OBSERVE his behavior. Next, pick someone who's ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE with women and observe how he acts when he is around women. You will see my point VERY quickly.
Another exercise is to go through the following questions. They are intended to "optimize" your behavior and keep you on the right track so that you can have your highest level of success with women month after month (Too many guys "get lazy" after sometime).
Do you chase women with gifts, flowers and compliments?
Have you ever given a woman a gift or flowers on the first five dates?
Do you do everything she asks you to do?
Do you seek her approval?
Do you tell her your feelings about her?
Do you wear your heart on your sleeve?
Do you try to impress her?
Do you try to please her?
Don't you think it's time to stop acting tongue-tied or "nervous" in front of women that you like? Let me teach you how you can start DATING women instead of being NERVOUS around them. Check out my e-book on "APPROACH AND ATTRACT WOMEN" which would give you a step-by-step guide on how to date beautiful women. APPROACH AND ATTRACT WOMEN
