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Have you been trying to get your guy to see things your way and make a commitment to you? Have you talked it out, but he's refusing to even budge on the matter? Are you afraid of where your relationship might be heading if he's so determined to keep things as they are? For the more part, women put a lot more importance on a commitment than men do. Once they've nuzzled their way into a cozy place, they see no reason to push for more.
But before you try pushing him into doing something he doesn't want to do, you need to understand why he's so reluctant. After all, you see this bright future ahead of you and you're baffled as to why he's not seeing it, right?
Well, this is what happens in the great majority of relationships. The guy falls in love with a sweet, vibrant woman who makes him happy. But as time goes on, his sweet little woman becomes demanding, controlling and downright unpleasant.
Suddenly the jokes that once made her laugh are silly. His quirky mannerisms get on her nerves. And those fun nights with the boys that she used to tolerate are now childish and immature.
You're suffocating him.
Give him room to breathe and respect the man he is. Have fun and forget about controlling everything. If you can let him see that a future with you will be just as fun and exciting as dating you once was, he'll be more inclined to get on board and sign up for a lifetime with you. His commitment will come without you even having to talk him into it.
