subject: Getting Your Ex Back - Taking the Effective Steps to Accomplish It [print this page] Getting Your Ex Back - Taking the Effective Steps to Accomplish It
Any relationship that breaks brings with it unending sorrow, pain and grief. Of course, you are obsessed with an idea of getting your ex back. We are all alike in this kind of situation. It feels like the world has come to an end and you wish that you could turn back time. Well, you certainly cannot turn back time but you can try to reunite with your ex by taking the effective steps. No, getting your ex back is not a game of chance and with this approach you would fail. Don't ever run after your ex or chase them. Pressurizing them might lead them to think that they took the right decision in breaking up with you. Begging and pleading will have adverse effects. Calls, text messages, sending cards and flowers will only drive them away from you. Don't contact your ex for a week or so. It will be tough for you but to get your ex back you need to stop all contact with them for a week at least. If there is no word from their side after a week, then it is time for you to take a step. Send them an email or a text message saying "how have you been?". Don't make the email or message very long, keep it short and casual. Never overdo it or you may seem very eager and interested. Controlling your emotions plays a significant role in getting your ex back. If the break up was just a decision taken in the heat of moment then it is sure shot that you will get your ex back after this. But if a month or so has passed by without any word from your ex then the situation is more serious and requires quick action. If you delay taking any steps for too long then there might be chances of your ex looking for a new partner. Never crowd your ex or follow them and incase you bump into them somewhere pay attention to other people present there besides your ex. Contacting your ex casually is a nice way to make your presence felt. If you still think about getting your ex back then it is very important to remember their birthday. We always want other people to remember about us, don't we? Sending a card, a gift or flowers is a good way of telling them that you are still interested in them. But don't go overboard with these things... just let them know that you still remember. Dating other people is a nice step in getting your ex back. Just make sure that the dates are casual and not serious ones. Go for a date to a restaurant where you might bump into your ex, seeing you with someone else might make them realize that they too love you and want you back. One thing you need to be careful about is not to sleep with any of your dates as this will be the biggest blunder you can commit and your ex will never come back to you.
