subject: How To Pull Your Ex Back! You Were Never Taught This In School, But You Better Learn This Now! [print this page] Relationships are NOT something which we are taught in school, especially BREAKUPS! But, that does not mean you cannot learn about them now, and in fact, the sooner you learn these tips, the sooner you can pull your ex back.
Read on to find out how you can pull your ex back...
Be with your ex for the right reasons
If you truly want to get your ex back, then you have to be with him/her for the right reasons this time around. You see, most of us get into a relationship for all the WRONG reasons. Maybe we are lonely and can't stand our own company, so then we seek the approval of someone else so that we feel valuable...and this is a HUGE mistake.
In fact, most of us only get into a relationship because of one insecurity or another. For instance, a lot of women will chase men around out of the fear of having to be alone; while some men may chase women around out of the fear of being socially "outcast" or the fear of being considered a "failure".
Thus, what ends up happening, is that the insecurities are still present and they become even more apparent when you actually get into a relationship, because you expect your PARTNER to tame these insecurities and get rid of them.
But what ends up happening, is that your partner cannot, then you argue, and finally break up; which means that this time around you need to be with your ex for the right reasons.
But what are the RIGHT reasons? Well firstly, you should really only want to be with your ex for support and love etc...so that the relationship can be healthy and so that your ex doesn't feel too pressured into an uncomfortable situation.
Once you get the insecurities out of the way, you will find it much easier to get your ex back as well, because they will feel you have changed and are in it for the right reasons, which in turn makes them comfortable to take you back again.
Getting your life together
Ever seen those kids who want a chocolate bar at the store, and when a parent says "No.", the kind promptly begs and pleads 10000 times, and even cries to make the parent give in?
Well, this is what most people do when they lose their ex...because they automatically react to things in a highly emotional manner. But, you aren't a child anymore, and your ex doesn't want to have to just give you things, without you even deserving it or working for it.
You are an adult now, and if you really want the "chocolate bar", then you are going to have to CHANGE, so that your ex can see that you really are the right person for them.
This is also known as getting your life together, which in turn shows your ex that you are really strong and that you are "relationship" material.
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