subject: Best way to bring up sex / give off a sexual vibe without being direct? [print this page] Best way to bring up sex / give off a sexual vibe without being direct?
Some guys call it "The most powerful seduction technique"
Learning to bring up sex in a conversation (subtlety and directly) is like adding Death Star to your Game. With full mastery, a girl will anchor your presence to sex. The effect of this is mind-boggling. Seduction becomes so easy you'll start doubting whether or not you have Jedi Powers. If your girlfriend anchors your presence to sex, you will give her ecstatic, all-consuming orgasms that make her entire body convulse EVERY single time you guys go to bed.
First thing you need to understand is the difference between male / female sexuality. Guys focus much more on Overt sexual communication (visuals, direct sexual encounters, etc). Women focus on Covert sexual communication i e; contextualized encounters, double meanings, subtle hints, etc. Remember this analogy for the rest of your life: Playboy magazines are to men what Romance novels are to women.
Sexuality determines whether a woman places you in the friend category or the boy-friend category. It is the KEY DEFINING secret of the Jerk. Where the Nice Guy is timid, the Jerk openly embraces his sexuality. Learning to give off a sexual vibe will determine how well you are going to know the inside of your palms for the rest of your life.
(A) Innuendos: You can turn almost any phrase into something sexual
(B) Bring it up Directly: Ask her where her favorite place is. You need to have a decent level of game to do this + she already needs to know you're an Alpha.
(C) Body Language / Tone of voice: You don't always need to verbally talk about sex.
(D) Anchoring: Set up an external anchor for sex. Whether it's a cologne, chocolate, or foot massages. Anchoring has an unbelievable Mind-warping effect.
(E) Make a joke about it
Her: "How did you like that movie?"
You: "It sucked, I've seen pornos with better plots" (establish frame and escalate from here)
(F) Be thinking about sex yourself. Not that I believe in some voodoo spiritual sex transfer type of thing, but your own sexual energy does come off in regular conversations. Noticed this first with myself, women instantly read a sexual vibe from guys who have it. (Besides women who subconsciously think they have a higher status than you, like taller women or women who date a guy more Alpha than you, this puts you in either the "little brother" dynamic or makes you a weird creeper if you try and game them).
(G) Just whip it out.
- Keep one thing in mind. Anchoring sex works the same as any NLP rule. It MUST be intermittent / specific. If you try and over-game, you'll simply activate her anti-slut defense or risk desensitizing her to your sexuality (the former destroys rapport, the latter destroys attraction).
