subject: Getting Your Ex Back When They Have Started Dating Someone Else [print this page] Getting Your Ex Back When They Have Started Dating Someone Else
The pain and sorrow of a heart break is doubled when you see your ex with someone else. If your ex starts dating someone else just after you two broke up, you may feel that your ex has gotten over you and has moved on in life. But you need not be disheartened. Just because your ex is dating someone else it doesn't mean that your chances of getting your ex back are over.
Don't lose hope as there is a strong possibility that your ex is in a rebound relationship. A rebound relationship is a relationship that happens after a break up. The truth about rebound relationships is that they usually don't last too long. So, getting your ex back is still very much likely but for that you need to wait and watch. It might be possible that your ex is dating someone else just to make you jealous or to fill the emptiness you left behind. They might realize your worth and come back to you.
Getting your ex back requires a lot of patience and self control. Don't just sit around waiting for your ex to return to you, do something that will make them want you even more. Join the gym, do yoga, just do anything that will make you look even better. Always remember, jealousy does not help at all. Don't ever pass negative comments about your ex and their new partner. Being jealous will only reduce any possible chances of getting your ex back.
Never try to date someone else just to take revenge from your ex. This will only make things complicated for the four of you. Your ex will take time but they will surely realize that they were dating someone else just because they were missing you. Till then, make sure you carry on with your life, don't ever put your life on hold for anyone. At the end of the day it is you and your life that matter to you.
Controlling your emotions is the key to deal with your ex's new relationship. Keep as little contact with your ex as possible. There might come a time when your ex might want to be just friends with you and confess to you about their new relationship. Ex's usually do that to see the reaction of their ex partners. So in order to get your ex back, you need to keep your emotions under control. Don't give your ex another chance of hurting you by giving them the satisfaction of having you as a back up. You have to learn to show other people that you too are important. Only if you value yourself, will others value you too.
