subject: Break Up Relationship Miracles [print this page] Most of us have probably experienced being in a very painful situation at some point in our lives. And a break up is probably the most painful situation that one can go through, especially so if you have been with each other for so long.
Getting over a break up is a very difficult thing to go through. Extreme sadness can be felt over the lost of that very special person in our lives; the one whom we hoped to spend our whole life with%u2026 that special someone whom we thought would share our hopes and dreams and be there for us during good times and bad.
And as we reach the point of breaking up, we would do just about anything just to save the relationship. We'd find ways just to be able to make things go back to how it used to be.
But before the relationship even reaches its end, we must try to avoid ending it in the first place.
All of us know that there are no perfect relationships in this world. But to be able to make a relationship work, it involves a lot effort from both parties. You and your partner should exert the same effort in making the relationship work.
It is very important that both of you are in the same boat, that both of you have the same expectations from your relationship. From the very start of the relationship, you and your partner should be open about what you both expect from the relationship.
The most important thing in a relationship is communication. There's a famous adage that says "Communication is the key to a successful relationship." This, in fact, is very true.
A relationship without communication is doomed to fail. The reason is that when you and your partner do not communicate, you won't be able to express how you truly feel. This can result to unresolved problems like pent up anger, hurt, disappointments and misunderstandings. This things can eventually lead to a very painful break up.
Constantly communicating with your partner helps you resolve any issues that you have upon each other. It also helps build a solid foundation between you and your partner. It makes things easier for both of you to understand what both of you goes through and what both of you want.
Being able to easily communicate with your partner would mean lesser conflicts as you can easily discuss things with each other. You can both compromise. Thus, this would make a happier and peaceful relationship.