subject: How To Know If A Spouse Is Cheating [print this page] The biggest reason for divorce cases has always been infidelity. If you are married for a few years, there comes a time when either of the partners can easily slip away into cheating. This can be physical or emotional cheating having another affair. You can never be prepared enough to face such a situation and every spouse should know if their spouse is cheating.
So what are the popular mistake they do while cheating? Firstly, you may start feeling lonely. This is because you are not spending much time together. You may be sleeping in the same bed, but on intimate feelings between you. Love and lust seems to fade away. He or she may be be interested in sex anymore. They look very pre occupied and if you question them they will just say - its work.
Unexpected or unexplained absence can also be another sign that there is a problem. The cheating spouse who previously returned directly home after work may have some problems getting home on time. Errands that take an inordinate amount of time is another signal. A sudden new interest that requires the spouse to be away from home can be suspect.
A spouse who for as long as you have known them was comfortable in whatever they had on may suddenly upgrade their wardrobe. This upgrade may not mean new clothes but may simply be the change from jeans and sweatshirt to a polo shirt and slacks. This sudden attention to appearance may be a signal that something is going on. If there are no dirty towels in the bathroom yet the spouse always looks clean and fresh, somewhere there are dirty towels and this needs to be looked into.
Strange telephone behavior, including an increased frequency in short calls consisting of mostly monosyllabic responses and strange numbers appearing on the caller ID or phone bill that you do not recognize and spouse denies knowledge of may be an indication that spouse is cheating.
Any one of the above indicators can be innocent in itself. If any combination of the above indicators arises at the same time, then warning flags should arise. Each of these indicators can have perfectly logical explanations yet knowing if a spouse is being unfaithful is a complicated process. One of the best indicators that the spouse is being unfaithful is simply feeling inside yourself that infidelity is happening. If you feel this then chances are that you are absolutely correct.
