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Maybe I should change the title of this article from top 5 lessons learned when you get dumped to top 5 things you wished you would have learned before you got dumped!
OK so you just got dumped! End of the world? No but to you it feels that way. But from failure comes success. Thomas Edison kept at with the light bulb one failure after another and then the light went on and stayed on. Glad he kept at it or we all would still be in the dark.
Same thing with relationships you can give up or you can keep at it and learn from each failed relationship. Learn from your past mistakes and try to avoid them in your next relationship. Notice I said TRY... change is a hard thing to do for a lot of people but at least if you are aware of the mistake you can stop yourself before you make it again.
#1. It takes two to Tango.... meaning there are two people in the relationship and both of you have your own opinions and views. One of the biggest mistakes made is not to respect that. Right or wrong it's still their view on the subject. Respect their opinion...but you can still disagree with them.
#2. Space.... the Final Frontier. Everyone needs their space and women need just a little more of it then men. Trust is the key to any relationship. Becoming controlling, possessive is un-becoming. There really is no need to know where your significant other is at all times. That just sends up red flags to them that you don't trust them. Sometimes space is just a short distance away... from you and that's all.
#3. Get Back up Again... That's what you do when you get knock down or your heart broken. Time heals all wounds even the ones that cut the deepest. But you get stronger each time. You try to figure it out what went wrong this time. Was it me or you or both of us or something else? Learn from it what you can and move on. Time waits for no man or woman!
#4. It's OK it didn't work out... Yes it hurts a lot, but again not the end of the world. A lasting relationship takes work there is no way around it. But in order for it to have a fighting chance it takes mutual consent. You both have to want it to work otherwise its doomed. And in many a failed relationship it was just a one sided affair. But at least you tried, you were in the game not sitting on the side lines watching love go by.
#5. The One.... There's a reason you take all the heart break and tears of every failed relationship and keep going. Because you know that some where, some day you are going to find The One!
The One who makes your heart skip a beat, the one who takes your breath away! The One who talks to you without ever saying a word! The One who makes you forget every failed relationship. Because with This One you can't remember anything that happened before them, it's like they been here with you all along!
There is no right way or wrong way or one way in a relationship. It's a two way street with the ultimate goal too have two hearts beat as one. Sometimes the end result doesn't quite work out the way you planned. I have good news for you that you can change that outcome. All you have to do islearn The Magic of Making Up system.You already knowthe top 5 lessons learned when you get dumped.
