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Have you ever wondered why you didn't get a call after the first date? Does that mean that the guy was a jerk, or could you have done something wrong? Are you aware of how your behavior impresses others? Read on to learn about some mistakes that can ruin a first date.
Mood-Killer #1 Worry about your future.
Do you go out hoping that each date will turn into a relationship, marriage, and a family? He can probably tell that you have an agenda. Many women are so focused on their plan for their lives that they can't just enjoy the evening.
A first date is the time to get an impression, and learn a few things about your date. These things are just preliminary information, and it's usually best to avoid talking about lifelong goals. Sometimes these things come out naturally during the course of conversation, but don't force it.
Mood-Killer #2 Try to gauge his income.
There are gold-diggers out there, and men have their antennae out for this. Don't come across this way, even by mistake. Avoid any references to income altogether.
Even indirect attention to someone's income is a mistake. In other words, don't talk about the kind of car he drives, or insist that he take you for an expensive meal. If you are wearing designer clothes, you don't need to point it out. You will sound like you want to know if he can support you.
Mood-Killer #3 Be rude.
It is surprising how often people forget the importance of simple courtesy. Almost all men can recount stories of being out with girls who are so spoiled that they don't bother being polite. Show that you have some sense and some thought for other people.
Don't text or answer the phone while you are out on a date. If you are rude to wait staff or employees, you will turn off guys faster than you can say "please". Remember to thank him for the date at the end of the night.
If you have made these mistakes in the past, don't beat yourself up. Learn from them, and don't ruin the next first date you go on.
