subject: Have You Found a Keeper? [print this page] Have You Found a Keeper? Have You Found a Keeper?
When you meet someone you really like, how can you tell if you've found a keeper? Is there a way to know whether that guy is for real, or if you're going to get your heart broken? Would you like to know the signs of a guy who really likes you? What follows are three signs that will help you to spot that guy if you have found a keeper.
He does what he says he'll do. This is a simple and obvious-sounding sign, but sometimes it gets overlooked. Players can be so charming and attractive, that women make excuses for the fact that they aren't reliable. A guy who is well-meaning will follow through on his promises.
If the guy that you have been seeing can be trusted to call when he says he will, and can be relied on to come through with other things, that is a sign that he's sincere altogether. If you are always uncertain about whether you can count on what he says, run the other way. Guys who are sincere don't leave you hanging.
He keeps in touch. When a man is seriously interested in you, he will contact you regularly. When a man is falling for a woman, he has a hard time staying away from her. If you have found a keeper, then he will call, text, or email you regularly.
If, on the other hand, you are in the clutches of a player, he will seem attentive when you are with him, but then will go for long periods without getting in touch. These guys are unreliable. They are just getting in touch when they want something, not because they are falling for you.
He is interested in figuring out where things are going. If your man is sincere, he will wonder whether you are committed to him. If you want to talk about it, he will talk and answer your questions. If you don't talk about it, he will bring it up.
Although generally it is thought that men take a long time to commit, they can fall hard and fast. And a man who is really falling for you will be concerned about your feelings, too. He will ask, either directly or indirectly.
It's not always easy to read people. There are no guarantees, but if you have found a keeper, consider looking for these clues.
