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It doesn't always seem like an easy proposition to put your family back together again after you've been caught cheating. In fact there are many families that never recover or manage to pick up the pieces and mover forward. You do not have to let this be the story of how your happy family ends though if you don't allow it to be. There are things you can do that will ensure that you really do have the happily ever after you've always dreamed of even after you've cheated on your spouse. There are four ways you can make this happen without even breaking a sweat.
1) Apologize for your actions. It's not always the fact that you've apologized that's most important but how you apologize. If you make a point of apologizing not only for cheating on your spouse but also for jeopardizing the beautiful family you've created together, chances are this apology will strike a chord that rings completely true.
2) Make your appeal to the entire family (provided your family is aware of the situation and knows what has happened) instead of simply stating your case to the injured spouse. Granted, you need to have a private word with the spouse that your actions have hurt but you also need to make sure your family realizes how sincere you are in your efforts to make things right and work things out between you and your spouse.
3) Start over from the beginning. It is best to go back to the beginning and start over with your spouse instead of trying to pick up where things left off. This is the time when you need to win not only love all over again but do whatever it takes to get the trust back as well. Starting over gives you the opportunity to go back to the beginning and leave the baggage of your marriage, as it was, far behind the two of you.
4) Forgive your spouse and ask your spouse to forgive you. Forgiveness frees your mind to focus on the more important things, like working things out. When you forgive your spouse and get forgiveness in return you'll find that your entire family is breathing easier as a result.
How does this help you put your family back together are cheating? Believe it or not, these four things are the push in the right direction that most marriages need to get things going all over again. Once all is well between the two of you, you'll find that your family is quite resilient and cheering the two of you as a couple along.
