subject: Secrets Of Attraction - How To Make Women Approach You [print this page] Wouldn't it be nice to be able to walk into a bar or a night club and instead of worrying about what you are going to do to approach a woman, you find that women start to approach YOU?
It can happen.
You might assume that you have to walk in with an entourage befitting a rap star or have the presence of a movie star to get women to approach you, but that is NOT the case. A regular, average guy just like you can use little secrets of attraction to make women want to approach you. The key word there is WANT. Instead of you being the one that wants to attract them, it will be the OPPOSITE. They will want to approach and get to know YOU!
Here are some tips on how you can make women approach you:
1. You have to demonstrate the appropriate body language.
Without the proper signals, women are not going to look at you the way that they would an in demand male. To be that in demand male, you have to know how to use body language as a way to communicate to women that you ARE the kind of guy that they want to be with. You have to be able to make a woman feel intrigue and curiosity when she sees you and leverage that intrigue enough to make her want to approach you.
2. You have to demonstrate social proof elements to a woman.
Instinctively, all people are drawn to those that seem to be attractive to others. And in the case of getting women to approach you, you want to make it appear as though you are attractive to other women. You can do this by either going out with a group of female friends, OR, by approaching decent looking women in the club, so that the much hotter ones get to check you out. Simple little things like this can easily make you seem like a guy that is in demand.
3. You have to show that you can have a good time.
If you do get women to notice you, you don't want them to see you as one of those guys that kind of drops back and does nothing fun when he is out. That is not going to pique her interest or drive her wild with curiosity to get to know more about you. You have to be able to show a woman that with you, she is going to be able to have the time of her life. so, make sure that you seem like a fun guy.
