subject: How To Get Over Your Girlfriend Who Hurt Me [print this page] Author: Kim Clay Author: Kim Clay
Although some men can deal with tension, there are a couple of guys who think that it is challenging to get over an ex girlfriend. They will try out to return to that girl or simply call her all-day hopping that will influence her to rekindle the old fires which died out weeks ago.
First you have to realize if you cannot get over her after searching online, you have a problem. Do you acknowledge why? Cause she doesn't like you, probably doesn't even call you back, if you didn't know, she is ingoring you. Probably she's already forgotten that you exist but poor you, thinking about all the fantastic things you both enjoyed. I'll tell you brother you need to get your shit correctly.
The lie that tells you can't get over her, is not because you enjoy her so much or she is the most stunning woman since the queen of Egypt, no sir.
You can't get over your ex girlfriend because you have hole inside you. Yes I'll say it again, you have a void inside you. You haven't got the answer to fill in so you think you can retrieve it from her. NO! She won't be efficient to fill it out for you . In fact no one can do it for you, others may show you directions but you only have to fill it.
Here is what I have in mind; the void I'm speaking about is called neediness. Many guys can't be themselves, they have to have a girlfriend on a side to be real.
The worse thing is that, they presume the other person (girlfriend) will make them be real. If they don't have one, they become unmanly. They miss accord and they are not capable to be themselves until they receive the approval of others. If you belong to these gentlemen then you have evolve to break that character at once.
You need to find what that void is; you have to question yourself why you need that girl so bad, what causes you like her. Once you get the answer then dig more for more answers. This will help you to acknowledge about yourself. It might be something as feeling important or the demand for acceptance. Once you get the accurate answer learn actions that cause you to feel important. Is it noticing different things, risky venture, learning new skills, it might be anything.
Once you have your needs satisfied you will feel more powerful and confident the quality that is charismatic and attractive to women.
Forget Your Ex in 24hrs will instruct you to fill the void inside so you can progress and start a new relationship without being needy.About the Author: