subject: Four Steps To Getting Your Boyfriend Back Before He Can Move On. [print this page] Four steps to getting your boyfriend back before he can move on.
Was there a rift between you and your boyfriend. Was it going on as smooth as silk -- but suddenly, everything seemed to go wrong and it fell apart?
Well, don't be overly concerned, because I'm going to give you some suggestions that will help you. In fact, I am going to give you four steps to getting your boyfriend back before he can move on.
Cheer up -- grab a coffee, and listen up!
Now -- the four steps are in the form of four questions that you need to ask yourself, right here at the outset.
1) Is the situation that caused the breakup initially of such ground- breaking importance, that it's an impossible hurdle?
2) Is right now- at this moment, the most opportune time to be arguing about it?
3) Could anything be altered in any way, if you stood firm -- or would it be more appropriate to cut it at the root and just move on?
4) Finally, is it really worth squabbling about in the first place?
Now -- inherent in these four questions to which I guess you answered no, are the steps that you need to take to resolve the issue of how to get your boyfriend back.
You see -- if you did answer, no -- then quit pushing the matter. Just let it go. You will be amazed at how many problems could be resolved -- if only the couple would allow the stress to dissolve and move on.
It's obvious that the next step in getting back your boyfriend, is to stop getting upset about your self - image, how you think others see you.
Does it matter if people think you are sad or happy -- brainy or dense -- too fat or too thin?
You must let go of these worries and start being yourself -- the person behind the mask. Just let your real persona shine forth.
That way, people will see you for who you are, rather than what you are attempting to be. There is an old adage; "to thine own self be true".
You must emotionally and mentally, put yourself at arms length from your ex. as this is an integral part of the plan to getting your boyfriend back.
This may sound like a negative and counter-productive thing to do -- but it is vital to mentally divorce yourself from the situation. That way, you can remove the stress associated with the breakup.
At that point you will get more peaceful about the scene, and if your boyfriend feels likewise, this is the time when real healing can begin, and become a part of your conversation together.
You see -- the bulk of relational breakdowns can be quite easily dealt with if both parties can find the patience and goodwill to simply talk things over.
This should be the main aim of both of you. The above are just the primary steps in getting back with your boyfriend.
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