subject: Why Don't Women Like Me? Qualities of an Unattractive Man [print this page] Why Don't Women Like Me? Qualities of an Unattractive Man
There are certain characteristics that turn off women instantly. You may have a chiseled body and a face to die for but if you have any of these traits then she will get bored and leave you sooner or later. On the contrary you can be average Joe who does not have a hint of these traits and still attract hot women who will do anything to spend more time with you.
1. Your wish is my command
Let's admit it, men don't like to have conflicts with women. However, some men take things too far and end up becoming door mats. Sometimes, men just need to man up and face the conflict. Women aren't attracted to wussies who run away as soon they smell some sort of difficulty. Furthermore, men who agree with women all the time come across as insincere. Agreeing with something that you don't want to agree with is just another way of lying. A man who lies can easily be a man who cheats.
2. Oh, I don't want to lose her
Insecure men are afraid of losing their girlfriends/wives and will do just about anything to keep them. This becomes boring and monotonous and is also a sign of low self-esteem. After all, you are worried about losing her because you think that she is too good for you. Hence, there is probably something wrong with you.
3. Nah! Why take the initiative? Just follow!
Every woman is hard-wired to look for a man who will be willing and able to take care of her and her children (if things go that far). Hence, even though she may not be thinking about your skills consciously she will definitely be testing you out on this trait subconsciously. A guy who cannot lead and take the necessary risks is a man who cannot take care of her and her children in times of crisis.
4. She likes me, she likes me not
Women prefer a man with confidence and a sense of deservedness. If you think that she is out of your league then she will be. Why would she date a guy who thinks that she is too good for him? Surely there must be something wrong with the guy. Men actually weed themselves out of the competition.
5. I know you want it and you can't have it
If you are acting all nice and obeying her every command like a little puppy then she will know that you want something from her. And to be honest and crass, it is usually sex (at least in the beginning) that men are after. How would you feel if a woman did everything you asked her to do because she wants to get her hands on your credit card? Any self-respecting man would be repulsed by these kind of women. Sure it may be fun for a few days but the end result will definitely be less than rosy. Similarly women don't want to be around a man who is just thinking about getting in her pants.
