subject: Women: Body Language Techniques For Dating Men [print this page] Women: Body Language Techniques For Dating Men
In dating, it is needed for women to provide signs in order for men to move forward. Body language actually helps men determine where their footing is and what their next move would be. It will be much better if you know which gestures you should deliver in order to get the results you are expecting. The art of body language can help you in making your stand clear. It is also necessary to throw body language because without these non-verbal signs, there will be nothing for men to read and you and your date might end up stagnant and bored. It is actually more fun when you read each other's gestures. It adds up spice on the date.
Here are some of the gestures or body language that women usually send off on a date and what they mean. If you like the guy you are with, these are most likely what your body should be doing.
The leaning towards
If you find yourself leaning towards him, this is basically going to be read as a showcase of your interest in him. So, if you are interested in the guy in front of you, better start leaning towards him in order for him to move closer.
The extra animated you
If you are laughing more often than the usual, finding yourself smiling wider than what you normally do, give reactions as if you are performing in theater where movements should be larger than life, this means that you are now in your flirting mode. These actions are actually unconsciously done. These actions are actually your way to release the exciting tension you are feeling because your heart is beating faster than the usual.
The high pitch
Are you hearing yourself talking in a squeaky, higher note voice? You are then excited. It also shows that you want to be seen as someone cute and adorable. If he hears this and is liking it, he might end up giving you a wide and broad smile. I actually find this funny because I get this almost every time I get to meet girls who are attracted to me. I don't mean to brag but it happens.
The caressing and twirling
Caressing the fork and table knife or your fingers and twirling your hair or your necklace are signs that you are up a notch with your flirting. You are not just interested in the guy you are with but you are up for something more intimate than just talking. You are now giving him signals that say, "You can now touch me." By doing these actions, you are sending the green light for the guy to move up the romantic ladder. You might get an "accidental" brushing each other's shoulder or a holding of the hand.
The lip licking with the caressing and twirling
Oh! This is like the doors of heaven have finally opened! The combination of these gestures connotes that you are ready to be kissed. In actual fact, the combination of these actions say that you are actually asking to have a kiss be planted on your lips. A guy who is a master of the art of seduction would not grab this invitation right away though. Instead, he will wait until you are pretty much fired up and almost willing to beg.
The dilated pupil
This is something that you will not be able to stop. Also, you won't be able to see it happening. Dilated pupils basically say that you are aroused. This is a giveaway you won't be able to take back once shown.
The lip licking and dilated pupils are I think men's most favorite of all the signs women send.
