subject: Factors Responsible For Leading A Happy Married Life [print this page] Marriage is the most important occasion in ones life, the one which a person waits for all his life time. Often people are heard saying, that the time before and during the marriage is the most memorable times, and the life after marriage becomes a daily routine and it becomes a common routine, which the couple follows. Not everything is gifted in the way people want it, but one has to shape it according to the requirements and needs. But of course, the time period of courtship and the marriage ceremonies are said to be the most precious ones, but to turn the times after marriage into more memorable and unforgettable ones, is in the hands of the married couple. Following are some of the factors, which can help a couple in leading a happy and contended married life:
Understanding
Understanding is the most important quotient, which helps the couple, in moving on with a smooth and healthy life. Misunderstanding is the most common problem, which is faced by the couple these days. They are more prone towards playing a blame game with their partner, which at the end leads nowhere, so the couple from the starting should try and understand his or her life partner and should give equal chance of explaining the point of view of the other person.
Negative thoughts
Youth these days have become so much negative, and are always pessimistic in their approach towards life. Whenever they think about an issue, the first side they view is the negative aspects of the issue, which makes their mind, think in the negative direction always and leaves no space for positive thoughts and optimism. The wife or the husband should not allow negative thoughts to come into their relationship, which becomes the main reason of raising the question of doubt in the relationship.
Friendship
Being friends with the life partner is the best solution to counter all the problems. Friendship is the basis of all relations, if a couple shares the relation of friendship, then they are very open to each other and shares all the problems and tensions of their life with each other. If a husband or wife is the best friend to his or her life partner, then that is the best gift, one can get in his lifetime. Such couples are the blessed ones, because they need not go and find another friend for sharing their problems, they have found their best soul mate in the form of their husband or wife.
Space
These days, people want to be independent and lead their life in their own defined ways. Though, they are answerable to their life partners, but that question answer session should be confined to a limit. Lot of digging into the reasons of small- small things, lead to the rise of irritation in the married life. A bride or a groom is not always interested in sharing some things, even with his life partner, in such cases; he should be left alone and given time and space to think .Also, lot of boundations in the relationship, makes it weak and pale.
Trust
Trust goes hand in hand with understanding, which a married couple must possess in their relation. Trust does not allow any of the above discussed factors to come into the relation and spoil the couples life. It is in a way the foundation stone of the couples wedding. From the very first day of the wedding, the bride and groom must have that confidence in each other, that nobody from the external source is able to put weeds in the relation.
Thus by implementing all these points in a relation and many others depending on the couples bonding, a married couple, can lead a successful and joyful lifetime with each other.
