subject: Essential Ways To Save A Marriage- 6 Tips To Take Action Today [print this page] In a climate where divorce is very common and marriages only have a 50 % chance of survival; it can be really tough to make marriages work. If your marriage is heading down the slippery slope towards divorce then perhaps you are looking for essential ways to save a marriage. Here are 6 tips you can take to try to get your marriage back on track
1) Do not panic
If you are panicking you are not able to think straight and you need to think clearly. Often, when feeling anxious, we react to situations instead of responding thoughtfully. So you need to clear your mind of all negative thoughts and start thinking rationally and positively, however hard this may seem.
2) Do not argue for arguments sake
Do not do anything that places you at loggerheads with your mate. Stop doing those things you know irritate your partner. Conflict will only fuel the fire that marriage problems bring, so instead be firm, but consider your partners feelings and wishes.
3) Listening
This could well be the reason why you are having difficulties. When was the last time that you truly listened to your partner and carried out their wishes? Start to put their feelings before yours and take action on what they have to say.
4) Consideration for your partner
Be considerate to your partner's needs and wishes. If they require space then give them space. If they need time to think, then grant them that time. If you figure that some of their demands are unreasonable then do not flatly refuse, instead compromise and meet them half way.
5) Introspective thinking
Think about the reasons why your partner fell in love with you. What was that spark that made your spouse want you? Reflect and resurrect those old qualities. Be the best that you can be. These qualities won your partner over once before; they can do so again.
6) Be Patient
Even if you think that time is running out. Your partner needs time to think. So use this time to show them that you want to and indeed will change. Let them know that you are willing to wait, however long it takes and show them that you are dedicated to the cause.
