subject: Compliment Your Way To Victory In Mlm And Personal Enrichment [print this page] People are really very simplePeople are really very simple. They need to feel self worth to survive. If this feeling is not invoked within, then depression is most likely to occur. The positive force a compliment can create may be the difference between an affirmative or mediocre relationship. Whether it's for business or personal reasons, compliments should be handed out multiple times a day by you. Doing this one simple task everyday, will not only enrich others but also your life as well.
Complimenting some one should be for a specific issue and not to general. For example, a good compliment would be "Sandy, your hair is very stylish and looks super on you." Not "Sandy you are looking good today." Being much more detailed with the compliment makes the person feel like you have really taken notice. Complimenting a person is one of the most rewarding gifts you can give so why not do it often?
Are you having trouble with the kids doing chores? Try praising them on a regular basis and see how far they will go to please you. The praise causes a feeling of acceptance and self worth which every child needs to feel happy and secure.
Giving compliments are important, but in return you must know how to receive one. When you receive praise, graciously smile and say "thank you". Do not try to destroy the positive reinforcement of the person delivering the compliment. For example, if Sally said to you "Sandy, your hair is very stylish and looks super on you." Do not say "I guess, but I can really see the gray in my hair." Making a statement such as that really demolishes the person's positive atmosphere they were hoping to generate.
If you are uncomfortable with giving or receiving compliments, start practicing every morning until it comes automatic. Flattery will greatly enhance someone's life if it is genuine. A person has an innate perception of false compliments. If you try to give forged praise you will just make that person even feel more insecure about themselves.
Try giving a compliment to someone who you really do not like much. Make it a point to find something good about that person no matte how insignificant you think it is. Compliment him a few times and watch how your feelings toward him change. You are now looking for the good in someone instead of the bad and what you see might surprise you.
What if everyone started practicing this technique everyday? If everyone only searched for the positive qualities which people possess? Our society today is very self serving and conceited, only expecting the worse in people. Would we see a decrease in crime? An avalanche with volunteers helping one another? A happier, more secure future for our children? The full possibilities in which positive energy could create can not yet be studied. Why? Because there are not enough compliments spreading throughout our society. Maybe the change can begin with you and set in motion a new beginning. You have nothing to lose and so much to gain implementing this important requirement every human being thrives upon.
