subject: How To Flirt And Seduce Women [print this page] Now, when you are out on a date with a woman and if you flirt and seduce or tease her the right way, her brain will be swimming with thoughts like "does he like me," or "is he just flirting with me?". These questions in her mind will make her very excited and she will want to get on with the game with its thrills and spills.
Whenever a woman dates a guy like this, she will naturally want to look her best and act her sexiest in order to get the confirmation to the questions in her head. The next thing I am going to say is very important if you want the girl to fall madly for you. So read carefully. The answer is to NEVER give her the confirmation that she so desperately seeks. This is one of the greatest technique in the art of flirting and seduction.
You see, when a girl is attracted to you, she desperately wants to know if the feeling she has for you is mutual! Yup, make sense doesn't it? So the best thing is that you can work a woman into a squirming frenzy by NEVER letting the girl know that she has succeeded with you. This is why you must never tell her how long you have been wanting to date her or admit that you are attracted to her or tell her how you think that the two of you would make a wonderful couple.
I know, these lines sound like romantic gestures, but if you do just that, you will probably lose the game. It is only in the movies can the dork or the wussy man is able to win over the hottest girl because he made some dramatic romantic declaration. That is in reel life. But in real life, it is more than likely that she will mentally regard this as your weakness. In the art of seduction, emotional strength is one of the most powerful keys to sexual attraction. This is called sexual tension.
You can be awfully sure that most of the time, romantic confessions are not going to get her to confess her own attraction for you. Simply put, you are now just any other guys who cannot control your emotions or your libido. So play it cool like a master player and act like nothing fazes you then you can be very sure that she will fall head over heels with you.
Then follow the correct progression in the art of seduction by escalating it from conversational level to physical touching. Just innocent non sexual touching like a small tap on the shoulder or brushing her slightly when deep in conversation. You will never need to wonder whether she likes you as a friend or whether she is interested in more. You will know.
The best time to do some touching and physical contact is when both of you are laughing. Simply just reach over and give her elbow a light touch or high-five her and interlace your fingers with hers, and then immediately disengage. What you are trying to acheive is to acclimatize her to your touch and raising the sexual tension even higher so that it becomes something she is comfortable and feel natural with. At this point, if she likes you, she will have a warm fuzzy feeling.
Once that she is comfortable with your touch, it will be very easy for you to hold her hands later in the night or even kiss her for the first time, or when the time is right, initiate the foreplay that leads to sex since she is already "warmed up" to your touches. Most men will often fail to escalate this because they do not want to be seen as being too aggressive. However, it probably is just an excuse for not daring enough to risk rejection.
So if you have laid your groundwork right, then escalate the sexual energy and build up her sexual attraction by framing yourself as a hard to get "prize". Make her work and chase her prize which is yourself and she will be receptive when you take things to the next level. But it is up to you to lead her there and make her fall for you crazily.
You see, if she has warmed up on you and by not escalating further with her, she may view you as a wuss and she may even felt a little insulted. But to you, you are just behaving like a gentleman, aren't you? Then tell me why do jerks get all the girls? I am not asking you to be a jerk. I am asking that if it is mutual consent, then why not? But it is up to you.
So the key to successful seduction is to build up the intimacy and sex with a progression of small steps. Perhaps the biggest mistake that guys often make is trying to seduce women before the groundwork has been laid out properly. Tell me how can you date a girl before you have spent time chatting with her and getting her interested in you? Pray, tell me how can you even attempt your first kiss when you have not even laid a finger on her all night? See the point I am getting at?
You build up to the first kiss by making contact with her throughout the evening, touching her slightly when having a discussion or giving her brief hand massages or brushing her hair back from her eyes or as simple as placing your hand on the small of her back as you guide her through a door. Just give her innocent touches now and then. This is called kino.
If there is a mutual attraction, let her be the one to express her feelings to you but definitely not you to her and when she does, play it even more cool. If she says something that implies she likes you and wants to date you again, just give her a vague response with no firm commitment. The more you seem like you don't really give a damn, the more desperately she will want you to confirm her feelings! Never give in!
To make your flirting and seduction more successful, you may want to dab some human attraction pheromones. You produce this sexual stimimulant naturally, but never enough to be sexually attractive to women. Pheromones combined with the flirting and seduction skills, you will soon become a natural women magnet!
